Nine ways to find happiness
December 25th, 2016 by Roger Darlington
I’ve just finished reading a book titled “Happiness By Design” which lists nine features which enhance life satisfaction. You can check out my review and the nine factors here.
And a Merry Christmas to you!
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Volunteering with Crisis at Christmas (4)
December 24th, 2016 by Roger Darlington
I have become a volunteer for the first time in my 68 years. I am doing three shifts with the charity for the homeless Crisis at Christmas. I am working on 23, 25 & 27 December and have deliberately given myself a day off between each shift to recover physically and emotionally. My shifts run from 3-10 pm because I don’t like getting up too early in the morning. Crisis do not want us to specify the location of the centre (it was in central London) or the identity of the guests, but I would like to share some general information and impressions on my experience and I know that family and friends – and indeed Crisis itself – are keen that I should do so.
Yesterday I performed my first shift. We were advised at our prior induction to “dress warmly, dress down and dress modestly”. So I wore brown clothes with worn cord trousers and a jumper that has seen better days. Plus I left my Apple watch at home and kept my iPhone hidden. All the volunteers are given badges with different colours and letters indicating roles (I am just a general worker) and carrying first names. All the guests have coloured wrist bands, depending on whether they have simply checked in for the day or have been allocated nighttime accommodation.
Like all shifts, we began with a briefing reminding us of the rules – no alcohol, no drugs, no violence, no giving of money, no giving of contact details – and how to behave. Most of the volunteers were younger than me, many typically in their 30s. There was a pretty even mix of men and women and one male-to-female transgender colleague. The ethnic mix reflected the cosmopolitan nature of London and I found myself sitting between two young women of Chinese ethnicity and later met volunteers everywhere from India to Columbia. Volunteers work in pairs or teams, so you are never alone.
The afternoon was a quiet time. I volunteered to staff the games room with a volunteer who was a recently retired nurse originally from Ireland. In fact, there were few games in the room and few visitors to it. Most of those who visited simply wanted a quiet area to relax. However, I made a point of talking to each visitor to the area. I met a guy from Lithuania and used my two phrases of Lithuanian; I chatted to another guy of Turkish descent and used my two phrases of Turkish; I engaged with an Irishman (I stuck to English this time). I helped one guest with a crossword and I (accidentally) beat another in a game of chess.
The evening was much, much busier. I volunteered to serve dinner to the guests. The floor was divided up between four teams and each team had a spotter who indicated who should be served next and what they should be served. The non-vegetarians (very much the majority) were given chicken, potatoes and carrots, while the vegetarians had macaroni cheese. Dessert was fruit salad or rhubarb crumble. It was an incredibly intense – but satisfying – hour and half, serving food, then collecting plates and dishes, and finally cleaning up. I came across a bunch of Italian guys and used a few Italian phrases with them which they liked. The guests were calm and appreciative. Just a couple were a bit stroppy and I was firm but polite with them.
All shifts finish with a debrief. Crisis likes statistics (it encourages the donors) and so do I. We were informed that, in the course of the day (the first of this year’s Crisis at Christmas), this particular centre had around 150 volunteers (30 failed to turn up), about 400 visitors came along at some point, and just over 500 meals were served. Volunteers were encouraged to bring their own food, but I didn’t bother and I was not really hungry at the time (I went to a McDonald’s afterwards). Coffee and tea are available to the volunteers at all times, but I only had one coffee in the seven hours because I was so preoccupied.
Surprisingly, I was less impacted by the shift at the time than afterwards. At night, I did not sleep as well as I normally do. My mind was buzzing and I felt as I do when I am jet lagged. The experience was so worthwhile and so humbling. I’ll be back tomorrow (Christmas Day).
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A review of “Rogue One: A Star Wars Story”
December 23rd, 2016 by Roger Darlington
The eighth “Star Wars” film is the first stand-alone one but fits very neatly in between III and IV. As a 68 year old, I enjoyed it as much as my nine year old companion. It is a Christmas cracker of a movie which I have reviewed here.
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How can the consumer voice be better heard in the regulation of essential services? – 15 videos with some answers
December 22nd, 2016 by Roger Darlington
I have previously blogged about a major conference at the BT Tower which I chaired on 2 November 2016. The event was organised by the Essential Services Access Network (ESAN), which I chair, and the theme was “How can the consumer voice be better heard in the regulation of essential services?”
The various speakers discussed different models of consumer representation and different methodologies for finding out what consumers think and we had practical examples from the water, energy, communications, financial services, and transport sectors..
The whole conference was recorded and we have now put video clips of most of the actual presentations – each just 10 minutes – on the ESAN web site. You can access the presentations, starting with a short introduction from me, here.
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Volunteering with Crisis at Christmas (3)
December 21st, 2016 by Roger Darlington
This year, I am going to be a volunteer with the charity for the homeless Crisis at Christmas.
At the induction session for new volunteers, we were given some background information on the causes of homelessness:
- The lack of housing overall
- The lack of affordable housing
- The loss of a tenancy
- Lacking work and/or skills
- In work, but low pay and/or hours
- Breakdown of a relationship
- Leaving prison or care
So why do the homeless come to a centre run by Crisis at Christmas?
- Companionship – someone to talk to
- Safety – somewhere they will not be harassed
- Food – warm and nourishing
- Sleep – warm and safe
- Medical services such as dentistry and podiatry
- ‘Feel good’ services such as massage and entertainment
And who are the guests? Based on last year’s statistics:
- 84% are male
- The age range is 18-93
- The average age is 46
- The top three nationalities are British (about half), Polish and Romanian
- They are not all rough sleepers but include the ‘hidden homeless’ from squats and so on
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Volunteering with Crisis at Christmas (2)
December 20th, 2016 by Roger Darlington
This year, I am going to be a volunteer with the charity for the homeless Crisis at Christmas. At the induction session for new volunteers, we were given some background information on the scale and nature of homelessness.
- Some 60% of the homeless say that they are lonely.
- Some 70% of the homeless say that they feel invisible.
- Someone who is homeless is 17 times more likely than the general public to be the subject of violence, sadly often from members of the public.
- The average life expectancy of a homeless person is just 47.
- One in four homeless people spend Christmas alone.
- Over the last six years, the scale of homelessness has increased.
- In the last year alone, rough sleeping has increased by around 50% in England with around 8,000 in London spending at least one night on the streets.
- It is estimated that in England there are around 250,00o people who are homeless or have no permanent place to live (using squats, hostels or friends).
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Volunteering with Crisis at Christmas (1)
December 19th, 2016 by Roger Darlington
For the first time in my life, I am about to become a volunteer. I have been accepted to do three shifts with the charity for the homeless Crisis at Christmas. Since this is my first time, at the weekend I attended a two-hour New Volunteers Induction Session at the Bloomsbury Baptist Central Church in central London.
It was a really good session. The four presenters – who between them had 54 such experiences – explained exactly what was involved and what we would have to do. They constantly changed speaking roles and used a mixture of slides, video clips, and role play to put over the information. As we left, we were given a Volunteer Handbook summarising the key points.
The organisation was founded in 1967 following the reaction to the Ken Loach film “Cathy Come Home”, so next year they will be marking 50 years of campaigning about homelessness and supporting the homeless. The first Crisis at Christmas was held in 1971 so this will be the 46th. This year, across London, Birmingham, Coventry, Newcastle and Edinburgh, some 13,000 volunteers – around half of them doing it for the first time – will be working in the various centres over the festive season.
The largest operation by far will be in London. Some 11,000 volunteers will be working in 10 centres and they are expected to support around 4,000 individual guests – the term used for the homeless visitors – who between them will make over 10,000 visits.
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The wonders of BBC’s “Planet Earth II”
December 17th, 2016 by Roger Darlington
I know that I’m late to the party, but I’ve just started to watch the widely-praised BBC natural history series “Planet Earth II” narrated by the venerable David Attenborough. The photography is simply stunning.
Episode 1 is about “Islands” and this is a clip:
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What proportion of England’s waste is actually recycled?
December 16th, 2016 by Roger Darlington
One answer is: not enough, less than half, and the proportion is falling. A more statistical answer is: the recycling rate in England has dropped from 44.8% in 2014 to 43.9% in 2015. The rate has fallen for the first time ever, prompting calls for a tax on packaging and meaning EU targets are now almost certain to be missed.
The amount of rubbish sent to recycling plants by householders had been steadily increasing for more than a decade, but more recently flatlined for three years. The fall back to levels not seen since before 2012 will be an embarrassment for ministers, who pledged to lead the first government to leave the environment better than they found it.
It also means the UK as a whole is almost guaranteed to miss an EU target of recycling at least 50% of its household waste by 2020, as England’s size means it accounts for much of the rubbish the country produces. Wales is far ahead of England with households recycling 61% of waste, while Scotland is on 44.2%.
More information here.
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30 photographs of my Thanksgiving visit to the USA
December 13th, 2016 by Roger Darlington
First, I did 10 blog postings during my visit to the United States to enjoy Thanksgiving; then I knitted these postings into a continuous narrative for my web site; now I’ve illustrated the text of the web page with 30 photographs. Check them out here.
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